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Archive for October, 2009

Let’s talk about Blackmail…

Most of you see Blackmail as something evil, nasty and downright rude but fail to realise it is actually something that has been actively sought after by some sad little man (or woman!) who get their jollies at the thought of being fucked over by a powerful Mistress/Goddess and the threat of losing it all…that’s right boys and girls, it’s a fetish!!

A lot of Mistresses/Goddesses go to the trouble to dig up the dirt themselves and pander to the whims of the little fuckers who decide they want to be Blackmailed but oh no, this is NOT the best way…if someone is serious in their intentions then they will provide all the dirty little secrets themselves along with names, numbers, addresses etc. etc….do they always give the right information or do they make it up?…simple….who actually cares?

If someone is serious in their desire to be consensually Blackmailed (there’s the keyword readers, consensual!) then giving fake info just isn’t gonna cut it in the long run…yeah, they might get off on the feeling that the Mistress/Goddess believes them and thinks oh yeah, this is how to fuck them over but if there isn’t any real threat then it’s gonna get a bit dull very quickly…if this is how they perceive the fetish and are willing to play along with it by giving in to the Blackmail demands of their persecutor (yes, paying them!) then I’ll go along with it, most will…after all it’s their fetish and if I’m still getting paid for supposedly fucking them over then I don’t give a shit if they’re getting the full experience or not, why should I?

Those who truly want the full experience on the other hand, are few and far between…Blackmail, although consensual, is still a very scary thing to most people…the thought that their very lives, jobs, existence even is held in the hands of an evil bitch from Hell who has their tiny, shrivelled up balls in an iron grip…most people who have the fetish will back out almost constantly and never take that final step of giving up all that real, juicy info and letting their lives be taken over…it takes a HUGE amount of trust for one thing, believing that the Mistress/Goddess in question will stick to the agreement and won’t just force them to empty their bank accounts at the first opportunity or risk their info being made public immediately!

That was about those with the Blackmail fetish who actually get off on going through with it, using either fake or real info…this next bit however is about all those stupid little cunts who think all they have to do is mention Blackmail to a Mistress/Goddess and have hours of free chat with no intention of doing fuck all about it…all they wanna do is get off on the theories involved and will try anything to get us Ladies to threaten, abuse, bribe and generally tell them, step by fucking step, exactly how we are gonna do it!

Hey boys!  Guess what?

WE’RE NOT THAT FUCKING STUPID!!!!

There has been an influx of them lately, crawling out of their cess pits and into My messenger, thinking all they have to do is give a bit of fake info, promise payment and then ask and ask and ask and ask…What will I do?…How will I fuck them over?…Is there no escape now?…Is their life over?…Oh My God I feel sick!…I want out, please let me out!…Will you ruin me?…Will you take it all?….and on and on and on and on and on…

They really must think I am so fucking stupid, that I’m some mindless thickie duh head who hasn’t a fucking clue….oh dear, they really have no idea…

I don’t block them, I let them think I believe them for a while but don’t give them the answers they desire so badly…I play with them and they end up so incredibly frustrated, it’s hilarious!!…hahaha…eventually I tell them, ever so sweetly, that until they send a little token of their sincerity (in other words, fucking pay Me you dipshit!) they get nothing, nada, zilch, zero…not one word will pass My sweet, sultry, red-painted lips about the methods I will use to destroy them, how I will change their lives in ways unimaginable, how they will never again know what it is to be free…

These type of cunts are the players, the ones who have no intention of ever paying for Blackmail, who think we are stupid enough to be strung along with fake promises and that their fake “fear” is believable and needs calming with explanations and methods….well fuck that!!…the old adage rings true and is the same for Blackmail as for any other fetish…

NO PAY NO PLAY!!

So boys and girls, you wanna be Blackmailed?…well, come see Me but remember, whether you’re giving fake info or not, you will get FUCK ALL from Me without an initial Tribute except a few pleasantries and perhaps the basics…and that’s only because I’m so good to you…hahaha

Sometimes I just can’t be arsed blogging….seems like a lot of fucking around taking time out of My wonderfully full and rich life to let all you little losers have a little peek inside My mind…wanna know why?

I’m sure most of you enjoy reading blogs that review films last seen, tell you about the total fucktard the Goddess managed to fleece last night, what goodies She has got given or bought with all Her gift vouchers, how many beans were on Her toast that morning…well guess what?

I’M NOT LIKE THAT!!

Yeah, sometimes I will blog about something which has peeked My interest at the time if I’m feeling in the mood, or will tease and seduce by going into graphic details of what I’m wearing, how I will fuck your mind up…blah blah blah blah blah……but most of the time?

I’m content to tell you about something, however inane, that I’m thinking about at the time…I don’t give two fucks how boring you find this because after all, this blog is for ME, not you…

A lot of you think a Goddess/Mistress has to permanently advertise Herself, make Herself seem like the fantasy many of you already perceive Her as with a wonderfully decadent lifestyle full of riches, expensive goods, designer clothes, wearing fetish clothing to Tesco’s and humiliating the poor man at the Post Office if he DARES to smile or breathe out of place…

Shall I let you into a little secret, hmm?…OK then….

It’s not all like that!! *shock horror!*

Most of us lead perfectly “normal” for want of a better word, vanilla lives…we eat crap food, watch shitty TV programmes, play online bingo (or is that just Me?), often go out to a crappy, boring vanilla job in the day or night or run businesses (like Myself) which are so far removed from the world of BDSM and Financial Domination that the words “polar opposites” don’t even begin to cut it…

At the moment I am sitting here in My PJ’s, last nights make-up, hair a mess and feeling like shit because it’s still fucking early and I am NOT a morning person….

Is this how you perceive Me?…or did you imagine I was dressed in full battle gear, made-up to the nines with 6″ spiked heels digging into the scrotum of the useless slave under My feet brandishing a fucking whip?

Do I still look sexy like this?…of course I do…do I feel sexy like this?…FUCK YES!!!…do you still perceive Me as sexy like this?

Do I care?….do I fuck!!…you either like the whole Me, exactly as I am, warts and all, or you don’t…if you just want the fantasy image then yes, there is a time and place for that which will usually come about when you have presented yourself to me on your knees with your pathetic little wallet in your mouth, drooling like a pig and begging for release…otherwise, you can all go fuck yourselves….I am NOT prepared to change what I am, who I am and what I do for ANYBODY….and if you don’t like that?…well, I really don’t care…

So there you have it…yes, I always have a Dominant personality, I always have sadistic thoughts and a very strange, sick sense of humour and tend to dress in a gothy type style with prominent make-up….but I DO NOT permanently walk around in killer heels dragging a submissive behind Me on a lead whilst wearing a too-tight corset, a protruding monster strap-on and snarling at anyone within five miles of Me….

Love Me for being ME, not for the fantasy…or don’t…..

This year I’m going to Whitby for the Gothic Weekend – wooohooo!!…I’ve never been before so don’t quite know what to expect but I’m gonna have sooooo much fun…:)

The question is this – do I have to prepare for Whitby or does Whitby have to prepare for Me?…when I’m off round the pubs and events dressed in all My Mistressy finery every man within ten miles is gonna be dropping at My feet with their wallets open, without a doubt…hahaha

It isn’t until the end of October (for Halloween of course!) so I still got some time to get My shit together and plan maybe a little…also gives all you good little boys, girls and inbetweens time to send Me lots of Amazon UK vouchers so I can buy some shit-hot stuff to take with Me!!…those who do will be rewarded with some pics I’m gonna take when I’m there and maybe some phone or cam time…what an incentive eh?…hehe

I will also listen (well, maybe), to any tips or experiences you have of this event so leave comments or whatever to let Me know what to expect and the best places to go etc…I’ll give a full report when I come back as well so you can all wait on the edge of your seats for My words of wisdom…hahahaha